Got to Be Real: How Being Yourself Will Get You More Girls
You know that Coca-Cola slogan, "Always the real thing"? It doesnt just apply to soft drinks. It also applies to relationships. No matter how many dating seminars you attend, how many books you read, or how many seduction services you subscribe to, none of the lessons are gonna matter if they dont fit with YOUR personality.
In his interview with dating guru DeAngelo, relationship expert Carlos Xuma says, "I feel like an idiot if Im just reciting somebodys regurgitated lines. I have to make it personal to me." I think a lot of guys can relate to that.
So you have to make your approach, your style, personal to you. But you also have to make it personal to a woman. Xuma makes the excellent point that if you use standard, recycled lines on a woman, you make HER feel standard and recycled, as well! Its as if shes a carbon copy of every other woman whos been branded with the cow-poke of pick-up lines.
Treat her specially, like someone unique, and shell treat YOU as someone special and unique, as well.
But how can you expect her to respect you, if you disrespect her by treating her like all the other woman out there? Theres the failure of overused pick-up lines: Theyre not original. And theyre usually not part of who YOU are.
As Xuma points out, in deciding how to approach girls, sometimes the best "style" is actually no style. Dont do what works for other guys; do what works for you. I hope that the methods I teach in "How to Be Irresistible to Women" will work for you. In fact, Im confident they will. But if they dont fit your personality, then dont use them! Instead of prescribing to just one methodor worse, to ALL of themtry to use pieces of each of them, until youre totally prepared for anything. Its nice to have a Plan A, but having a back-up Plan B, C, D, and E is even better!
Xuma suggests being like Bruce Lee, who didnt just one martial art style for himself, but a collection of various ones. In the end, when he became a star, Lee didnt practice just one style; he practiced so many, that he didnt really have any one style. He just did what fit him.
So it should be for you. You should be the Bruce Lee of relationships! And, just like Coca-Cola: "Always the real thing."
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James Brito regularly explores topics of attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men around build confidence and get the women they deserve. To get his free six-part audio mini-course, visit:
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/
James Brito is the author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women." His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing women the world over. His immersion in international dating circles brings forth a gritty, no-nonsense approach to dating and developing relationships necessary for the modern single man. Learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at: http://www.000relationships.comPersis Blog68642
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In his interview with dating guru DeAngelo, relationship expert Carlos Xuma says, "I feel like an idiot if Im just reciting somebodys regurgitated lines. I have to make it personal to me." I think a lot of guys can relate to that.
So you have to make your approach, your style, personal to you. But you also have to make it personal to a woman. Xuma makes the excellent point that if you use standard, recycled lines on a woman, you make HER feel standard and recycled, as well! Its as if shes a carbon copy of every other woman whos been branded with the cow-poke of pick-up lines.
Treat her specially, like someone unique, and shell treat YOU as someone special and unique, as well.
But how can you expect her to respect you, if you disrespect her by treating her like all the other woman out there? Theres the failure of overused pick-up lines: Theyre not original. And theyre usually not part of who YOU are.
As Xuma points out, in deciding how to approach girls, sometimes the best "style" is actually no style. Dont do what works for other guys; do what works for you. I hope that the methods I teach in "How to Be Irresistible to Women" will work for you. In fact, Im confident they will. But if they dont fit your personality, then dont use them! Instead of prescribing to just one methodor worse, to ALL of themtry to use pieces of each of them, until youre totally prepared for anything. Its nice to have a Plan A, but having a back-up Plan B, C, D, and E is even better!
Xuma suggests being like Bruce Lee, who didnt just one martial art style for himself, but a collection of various ones. In the end, when he became a star, Lee didnt practice just one style; he practiced so many, that he didnt really have any one style. He just did what fit him.
So it should be for you. You should be the Bruce Lee of relationships! And, just like Coca-Cola: "Always the real thing."
********************************************************************
James Brito regularly explores topics of attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men around build confidence and get the women they deserve. To get his free six-part audio mini-course, visit:
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/
James Brito is the author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women." His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing women the world over. His immersion in international dating circles brings forth a gritty, no-nonsense approach to dating and developing relationships necessary for the modern single man. Learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at: http://www.000relationships.comPersis Blog68642
Othilia Blog692
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